This might surprise you to learn (given how often I write about positivity), but… being positive doesn’t come naturally to me. I have to proactively work at it every day. And for that matter, it’s never easy, even when everything seems to be going well in my life. I’ve got to be honest – I’m […]
As a deep, sensitive person, I used to find it incredibly challenging to show vulnerability to others (out of fear of rejection or criticism). But over time, I’ve come to realize that there are more benefits (than detriments) to living a heart-centered life. While we often don’t want to expose our deeper emotions (or Continue Reading
If this year has taught us anything, it’s that learning how to establish the right mindset can help us better handle life. While we can all complain about what isn’t working or what’s gone wrong, the truth is – we have control over the quality of our thoughts. That’s why regularly writing in a gratitude […]
With the tendency to be a people pleaser, I’ve learned the hard way that setting healthy boundaries isn’t easy, but it is absolutely necessary. One of the main reasons why we need to set healthy boundaries is to maintain our sense of self while connecting and communicating (in healthy ways) with others. Setting healthy boundaries Continue Reading
While I’ve always thought of myself as adaptable, the truth is – I’m a creature of habit. I’ve always enjoyed the comfort of my routine, living in the same area (for my entire life), doing the same job (for nearly 20-years), and being comforted by a sense of certainty and predictability. But, over time, I’ve […]
The pathway toward true happiness starts with the journey inward. Often times in life, we seek external validation in order to feel a greater sense of self-worth. But, this leads us to disappointment, addictive tendencies, and unfulfillment. Beyond our ego’s need to feel special (at least in the eyes of others), one of the biggest Continue Reading
In the garden of life, even the most beautiful roses often have thorns. Since life isn’t always as easy as we’d want it to be, when we choose to have an optimistic outlook, this positive perspective can help us overcome challenging moments. If this year has taught us anything, it’s that circumstances can change in […]
The saying goes, “when one door closes, another one opens”. While we’ve all heard this expression, the truth is – it’s often challenging for many of us to let go of our mental attachments (to the past or the future). However, by learning how to practice the art of non-attachment, we give ourselves the chance Continue Reading
If you’ve been feeling a little depressed, grumpy, irritable, or more tired than usual lately, you’re not alone. After recently reading an article by Shape about the concept of “Quarantine Fatigue”, it dawned on me, that I (and probably many of us) have been experiencing some of the common symptoms. I finally realized I Continue Reading
I believe that one of the main reasons why we’re on Earth is to evolve. As we work on ourselves, improve ourselves, and learn to fulfill our potential, we not only find greater joy and deeper meaning in life, but we also help to inspire and help others too. By focusing on personal growth (in […]
I love the quote by Oscar Wilde, “Be yourself, everyone else is already taken”. If you think about it, it’s so true. I have a strong sense of self, always strive to be authentic, and know who I am on a core level. However, this wasn’t always the case. Like many people, I just wanted […]
I read a quote by Joel Osteen that has become engrained in my mind. It said, “Happiness is always a choice. You can’t wait for circumstances to get better. You have to create your own good fortune. So look for ways to be happy every day.” Over the past several months, I’ve diligently worked on […]